[shivayoga] Celibacy ....... and Sexual Promiscuity ... ....

Wow! Don't even mention these topics in front of me - i get too
worked up! in my school days when i was studying in a convent , i
have seen how 'amorous' those middle aged kerala christian nuns were
behind those white SAREES!!in fact , i have seen one of them browsing
through the pages of Vatsayana's 'Kama sutra' lingering on
the '"Charunarikshita' POSITION ( lovely lady in control) - you
know , kerala women are goddesses who love to be in total control of
their men folk ( matriarchical society) ! Lol:) if they don't master
the technique , they can always join Mother Teresa's Divine Order!

and those muslim women wearing the black purdah had such 'wandering'
eyes that would put even a gazelle to shame! i remember when my
handsome brother and i used to stand in our balcony of our multi-
storyed house , there was one muslim college girl who always used to
look up to see if her eyes could catch a glimpse of my brother's
handsome face ! Yes, those eyes were always looking for 'mere
meheboob' She was hiding her 'bobobs but her eyes told a different
story - the come hither look!

and don't even talk about those Parish priests - The most degenerate
and corrupt - The church is full of them - pedophiles , sexual
perverts , with different sexual orientations , - i sometimes wonder
whether they are there to hear confessions or have their own
confessions to make!

and last but not the so called Hindu Swamis --- they can write
treatises on 'Sringara ' shatakam which would even put King
Bhatruhari to shame!At least , Bhatruhari wrote his vairagya
shatakam after shringara shatakam - but these so called sanyasis
are 'kapata' sanyasis - wearing ochre robes and carrying a
kamandalam, all they think of is how to seduce a helpless woman! The
Hare krishna movement is full of such kapata sanyasis!

Haresh is making a valid point - in societies where 'sex' is a
taboo , all kinds of Sexual promiscuities prevail - there is incest ,
rape , molestations and perversions !

The point i am trying tyo make is - celbacy is not a state of the
body ! it is a state of mind !

Krishna 78 is right - ADI SHANKARA BHAGVAEDA PADA WROTE THE AMARU
SHATAKAM after his sexual experiences in the body of a king - of
course , we hindus love to deny 'sex' and i always wonder how come
India's population is so high where the only form of entertainmkent
is 'copulation ' and not golf or football or even cricket!

Guys , Sex is good ! Good sex is even better but my only advice to
all young men/women is 'be safe , don't be sorry !' Philantrophist
Bill gates may be a billionaire but he cannot spend all his billions
in India ( specially Chennai) where 'Aids' is spreading faster than a
Tsunami!

and incidentally , Tantra is not just 'sex, black magic ,
witchcraft ' - it is a Whole Science which teaches you how to use the
body to expand the cosciousness ! Tan means bodty - tra
means 'expanding' - use the body to expand your consciousness! After
a while , too much sex is more boring than too little sex! This is
called 'saturation ' point! There is a world of difference between
Thusti (satisfaction) and Santhushti ( happiness)

i leave you with this note

"IF DRINkng wine is liberation, all drunkards should attain
perfection; if eating meat leads to higher regions, all meat eaters
would be meritorious; if cohabitation with woman opens the gates for
liberation, all creatures with natural mating instincts would enter
the gates of liberation. "

TANTRA IS NOT FOR THE FAINTHEARTED!

ps - did i hear someone say women don't have Kubndalini? Even animals
have 'kundalini' shakthi! only they are not aware of it!